When they meet this one person.. and that one person changes their life forever. All of a sudden, they start to believe that they could do anything they set their mind to. That even if they fail, they will still be happy because that one person will always be there to support them.

When you meet that person, hold on tight, and never let go.

This was said by a friend of mine. It is true that there is that one person that will literally change you forever. However, that one person does not always have to be a positive support beam. This is me speaking from my own experiences so everyone does not have to agree with me. 

At first when I was with this person, everything was beautiful and fill with happiness to a point that I would settle for mediocracy. I settled for mediocracy because I thought the things that I could not achieve before already happened. But there’s a saying: “All good things must come to an end.” I met that person and I had to let them go. That, however, does not mean that when I fail, I will be unhappy.

Most people have that special someone that even when they fail, they have someone to fall back to and help them back on the right path again. I however, do not have this luxury. This person started off as a good support system for me but in the end, this person decided to cut me from their life and leave me all alone. This person has been the sole motivation for me to become successful in everything I do.  I thrive on negativity. I perform my best under pressure. Everything that that person said I cannot be, I use that extra negative motivation to help me succeed and keep my head focus on the goals that lies ahead of me. 

That person is never there to support me anymore. If I fail, I have no one to fall back to keep me going again. All I have is myself. All I do is think about all the wrong doings that have been done to me by this person so I can work hard and move forward again. 

Not everyone is happy with someone. I am happy being alone with a negative motivation source to help me pursue my dreams and goals. I am more productive that way and not being productive makes me antsy and depressed, even with someone by my side. So for now, I am glad that I let this person go for they have set me free to the limitless potential inside of me without being caged like a flightless bird. I believe more than ever that I could do anything I set my mind to even with this person out of my life. No matter how much I hate to say this, but thank you for being a part of my life. Even though it was a negative impact, I learned to use that negativity to help spur my boundless potential.